-아/어 버리다 in Korean: “completely, ended up (doing)”

-아/어 버리다

-a/eo beorida

completely, ended up (doing)

Intermediate · Helper verbs

-아/어 버리다 (-a/eo beorida) means "to do something completely" or "to end up doing it," with an added feeling. Depending on the situation, that feeling is regret ("oh no, it's gone"), relief ("finally, it's done"), or a decision to just get something over with.

How to form it

WhenAddExample
Stem with ㅏ or ㅗ+ 아 버리다가다 → 가 버리다
Any other stem+ 어 버리다먹다 → 먹어 버리다
하다 verb해 버리다말하다 → 말해 버리다
Past (most common)+ 아/어 버렸어요끝나다 → 끝나 버렸어요

How to use it

버리다 on its own means "to throw away." As a helper verb it says the action is fully done and can't be taken back. It is mostly used in the past tense: 가 버렸어요 (it already left, it's gone).

The feeling comes from context. 케이크를 다 먹어 버렸어 can be a guilty confession. 숙제를 끝내 버렸어 sounds relieved, like a weight is off your shoulders. Without 버리다, the sentence just states the fact.

In the present or as a command, it means "just do it and be done": 그냥 말해 버려 (just say it already). It works in both casual and polite speech.

Examples

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Confessing to a roommate

I ate all the cake.

Missing the bus

The bus already left.

Relief after studying

I got all my homework done.

Letting a secret slip

I ended up telling the secret.
Kkachi the magpie

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Don’t mix it up with

-고 말다: Also "end up," but more serious and bookish, usually about something you tried to avoid. It is not used for relief the way 버리다 can be.

-아/어 놓다/두다: 놓다 means you did something and kept the result for later. 버리다 means the action is finished and gone, often with regret or relief.

Common mistakes

Using it to describe a neutral event. 밥을 먹어 버렸어요 is not just "I ate"; it adds "oops" or "done with it." If you just mean "I ate," say 밥을 먹었어요.

Spacing the dictionary words 잊어버리다 (to forget) and 잃어버리다 (to lose). These are single words and are written without a space.

Questions learners ask

Does 버리다 mean "throw away" here?

Not literally. As a helper verb it adds the idea that the action is completely finished, often with regret or relief. The original meaning of "throwing away" explains the feeling: once it's done, it's gone.

What is the difference between -아/어 버리다 and -고 말다?

Both can mean "ended up," but -아/어 버리다 is everyday and can show relief, while -고 말다 is more formal and usually describes an unwanted result after resisting it.

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